Wednesday, 20 August 2014

Bout of Books Readathon Day 3 Update

Bout of Books

Today I read to page 204 in The Widow's Guide to Sex and Dating by Carole Raziwell. I will be finishing the book tomorrow.

This book has reminded me that sometimes books can be fun and there's nothing wrong with reading for pure entertainment. There's also many truths about that first year of widowhood that author Carole observes that I could really relate to. (The 3-6-3 rule is sooo true. I'll explain in my complete book review.)

I am absolutely loving the book and I really hope Claire finds love. There's been a hint that she ends up with an actor. Who will it be? Is it someone she has already met in the book or someone new? Don't worry. I won't give away any spoilers.

I'm also participating in the Beat the Heat Read-a-thon so this book counts towards the six books I'm reading fot it.

Tuesday, 19 August 2014

My (Belated) Bout of Books Read-a-thon Goals and Read-a-thon Update

Bout of Books

I'm posting my goals a couple days late but it's because I have been so into what's going on in Ferguson. One can only watch so much news before it starts to become unbearably depressing. Besides I can't do much from my couch other than send supportive tweets and say prayers.

Every time I make a list of reading goals I usually never actually reach them, but here it goes.

I will finish the following books:

1. The Widow's Guide to Sex and Dating by Carole Radziwill

2. The Fifth Sacred Thing by Starhawk

3. book to be determined

I know that's only three books and the likelihood of me finishing them all is pretty unlikely, but I felt I needed to set these goals anyway. It's good to have goals, right?

Before this read-a-thon I had half of The Fifth Sacred Thing read. I had to put finishing it on hold to read The Widow's Guide to Sex and Dating because I realized the book was due back on Aug 22. I have read 69 pages so far. So far  these are my favorite lines:

"Widows are the new virgins, Claire. Men are licking their chops for you right now. They're all going to want to pop your widow cherry."

They seem vulgar and completely inappropriate to say but that is why I love them. This is why I love this book. Death is sometimes funny or absurd and this book acknowledges that.

I'm also participating in the Beat the Heat Read-a-thon so these books will count towards that read-a-thon as well. I hope to get six books read in total for this read-a-thon.

Monday, 18 August 2014

Announcing the Labor Day Read-Along and Blog Hop!



I will be hosting a Labor Day Read-along on Labor Day! We will be reading Labor Day by Joyce Maynard. I know this is somewhat last minute.

How It Will Work:
You want me to read the entire book in a day?

No of course not, unless you want to! Read Labor Day between now and Sept 1st, then sometime before or on Labor Day post a review of the book. Please have your reviews posted no later than Sept 2.

Share your post and the info about the read-along using the hashtag #labordayreadathon. You can find me on Twitter here.

What If I've Already Read It?
If you have previously read Labor Day feel free to add your review in the Mr. Linky sign up below or in the comments. 

Discussion Questions:
You may also write answer the discussion questions for Labor Day. The discussion questions can be found here.

Bonus
Watch the movie and write a review

Finally Blog Hop on Labor Day (and after)
On Labor Day (and in the days after) return back to this post and blog hop your way through everyone elses reviews!

Friday, 15 August 2014

Feature and Follow Friday


Question of the Week: Suggest a question! We need questions of the week for future FFs. Any ideas?

Hmmm...what character would you most like to have as your lover? (My answer: Damon from The Vampire Diaries but maybe we could borrow Christian Grey's red room? lol)

Featured blogs this week are The Reading Habits of a Recovering Daydreamer and Watcha Reading.

The Rules of Feature & Follow Friday:
To join the fun and make new book blogger friends, just follow these simple rules:
  1. (Required) Follow the Follow My Book Blog Friday Hosts {Parajunkee & Alison Can Read}
  2. (Required) Follow our Featured Bloggers
  3. Put your Blog name & URL in the Linky thing. You can also grab the code if you would like to insert it into your posts.
  4. Grab the button up there and place it in a post, this post is for people to find a place to say "hi" in your comments and that they are now following you.
  5. If you are using WordPress or another CMS that doesn't have GFC (Google Friends Connect) state in your posts how you would like to be followed
  6. Follow Follow Follow as many as you can, as many as you want, or just follow a few. The whole point is to make new friends and find new blogs. Also, don't just follow, comment and say hi. Another blogger might not know you are a new follower if you don't say "HI"
  7. If someone comments and says they are following you, be a dear and follow back. Spread the Love...and the followers
  8. If you're new to the Follow Friday hop, comment and let me know, so I can stop by and check out your blog!
My favorite way to follow is through Bloglovin and now Feature and Follow Friday has graphics to let your readers know. Feel free to follow any way that you want (I'll take all the follows I can get) but I do favor Bloglovin. 

Wednesday, 13 August 2014

Wishlist Wednesday Blog Hop


Wishlist Wednesday is a book blog hop (hosted by Pen to Paper) where we will post about one book per week that has been on our wishlist for some time, or just added (it's entirely up to you), that we can't wait to get off the wishlist and onto our wonderful shelves.


The book that is on my wishlist is Bad Feminist: Essays by Roxane Gay. Here is the book description:

A collection of essays spanning politics, criticism, and feminism from one of the most-watched young cultural observers of her generation, Roxane Gay. 

“Pink is my favorite color. I used to say my favorite color was black to be cool, but it is pink—all shades of pink. If I have an accessory, it is probably pink. I read Vogue, and I’m not doing it ironically, though it might seem that way. I once live-tweeted the September issue.” 

In these funny and insightful essays, Roxane Gay takes us through the journey of her evolution as a woman (Sweet Valley High) of color (The Help) while also taking readers on a ride through culture of the last few years (Girls, Django in Chains) and commenting on the state of feminism today (abortion, Chris Brown). The portrait that emerges is not only one of an incredibly insightful woman continually growing to understand herself and our society, but also one of our culture. 

Bad Feminist is a sharp, funny, and spot-on look at the ways in which the culture we consume becomes who we are, and an inspiring call-to-arms of all the ways we still need to do better.

I want this book because lately I've realized I may not be as much of a feminist as I think I am. Between worrying about my gray hairs, wrinkles, and #womenagainstfeminism I'm questioning what it really means to be a feminist. I feel like I'm a bad feminist and I could definitely relate to these essays. According to this article though Roxane Gay is "Not Such a Bad Feminist After All."

Monday, 4 August 2014

August is a Month of Readathons!

August 4 - 10
The first readathon is also a reviewathon. The Monster Thons are being hosted by The Book Monsters. In addition to the Thons, we will be hosting some fun related challenges, great prizes, and a Twitter party. The hostesses Twitters are Kristen: @bookgoil and Kate: @neshelf. Use the hashtag #pickyourthon. The first Twitter party is on Wednesday, August 6th at 7 pm CST.

August 11 - September 1
The second readathon begins right after the first and actually overlaps the third. The Beat the Heat Readathon is hosted by Phantasmic Reads and Novel Heartbeat. There will be mini-challenges throughout the Readathon for participants, along with a grand prize giveaway at the end!


August 18 - 24
The third readathon is the Bout of Books Readathon. The Bout of Books Readathon has it's own blog but is hosted by Reading the Paranormal and On a Book Bender. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize.

Thursday, 24 July 2014

The Leftovers by Tom Perrotta


I watched a few episodes of The Leftovers on HBO and decided to put off reading the books for my Summer Challenge because I just had to read The Leftovers book.

It was a mostly a waste of time. It was one of the worst books I have ever read.

Explaining the premise is rather difficult for this book so I will share the blurb from Amazon:

What if—whoosh, right now, with no explanation—a number of us simply vanished? Would some of us collapse? Would others of us go on, one foot in front of the other, as we did before the world turned upside down? 

That’s what the bewildered citizens of Mapleton, who lost many of their neighbors, friends and lovers in the event known as the Sudden Departure, have to figure out. Because nothing has been the same since it happened—not marriages, not friendships, not even the relationships between parents and children. 

Kevin Garvey, Mapleton’s new mayor, wants to speed up the healing process, to bring a sense of renewed hope and purpose to his traumatized community. Kevin’s own family has fallen apart in the wake of the disaster: his wife, Laurie, has left to join the Guilty Remnant, a homegrown cult whose members take a vow of silence; his son, Tom, is gone, too, dropping out of college to follow a sketchy prophet named Holy Wayne. Only Kevin’s teenaged daughter, Jill, remains, and she’s definitely not the sweet “A” student she used to be. Kevin wants to help her, but he’s distracted by his growing relationship with Nora Durst, a woman who lost her entire family on October 14th and is still reeling from the tragedy, even as she struggles to move beyond it and make a new start.

Fascinating idea right? Unfortunately Perrotta's execution was terrible. He focuses so much on the individual lives and grieving that the victims could have died in a bus accident and the story would not have changed.

He does briefly describe how the county freaked out after the Sudden Departure. There were car crashes, traumatized witnesses, and the market crashed. But is any of this exciting action included? It's touched on in very subtle ways. It's told as a flashback because the novel starts three years after the Sudden Departure. Perrotta completely skips what would have been the most exciting part of the story.

Now I will say I did not expect an explanation of what the Sudden Departure actually was or why it happened. (As a fan of Stephen King I'm used to dealing with no explanation of supernatural events.) I just wish Perrotta had pulled back and told more of the world's story rather than just the handful of people in the small town.

What kept me reading were the storylines about the two different cults. I did enjoy the parts about the Guilty Remnant and followers of Holy Wayne. Although I found what Meg did at the end of the story completely and utterly impossible to believe. It does make me want to seek out more books about cults.

The main storyline about Kevin and his daughter was completely boring and seemed to have very little to actually do with the Sudden Departure. Which is pretty sad considering Kevin was supposed to be the main character.

The worst part about the book was the open ending. There basically isn't an ending. Perrotta seems to rush his attempt to tie up the loose ends of the story threads and in doing so makes the non-ending hard to even believe. The characters resolve their problems by acting completely out of character. The way the books ends, you find yourself flipping to the last blank page wondering where the rest of the book is at. It ends as if there was going to be a sequel.

This book had the potential to be mindblowing. Instead it's a complete fail. My rating Photobucket